waves, blue sky and stiff breeze, great |
For mindfulness to be truly effective it is important to go deeper, to reflect on the experience and yes take pleasure from it, but not to grasp it too tightly as therein lies a problem.
In traditional teachings on mindfulness going back over 2500 years the original words used to describe the experience - sati and smrti, meant being aware and remembering but alongside these were teachings of conditionality, that actions have consequences and of impermanence, that everything that happens or exists does so because of something else.
The key teaching here is in being aware of, recognising and remembering this interdependence and impermanence. We learn to stop grasping after the pleasurable and trying to avoid the unpleasant, instead accepting that everything is changing including our thoughts, feelings and emotions.
Being mindful on the beach today included not wishing it was exactly the same as a previous visit or hoping it would be more sunny or less windy next time, not hoping the redshank we linger just enjoying its flight then, simply appreciating it as it was in that moment, not judging it better or worse than another moment.